How can a shy student start conversations at university?
Even if you are shy, try starting with a brief question to someone nearby before or after class, using a shared situation such as “Is this your first time taking this class?” or “Do you know how to submit the assignment?” Simply greeting the same people each time can gradually build a connection. Joining a club or small-group activity may also provide an easier setting for conversation. You do not need to force the conversation; begin with one comment at a time while watching the other person’s reaction.
Key points
- Use shared topics such as the class or an assignment
- Start with a greeting and a short question
- Increase opportunities to talk through small-group activities
- Watch the other person’s reaction and do not force the conversation