What if I do not get along with people in my department?
You do not need to become close to everyone. In classes and experiments, communicate carefully about what is necessary, while trying to broaden your places to belong and relationships through clubs, courses outside your department, part-time work, or similar settings. If isolation begins to interfere with your studies, consult your academic adviser, supervising faculty member, or student counseling service. If you experience harassment or feel unsafe, do not handle it alone; contact a university consultation service promptly.
Key points
- Aim for relationships in which you can cooperate when necessary, rather than becoming close to everyone.
- Build supportive places and connections outside your department as well.
- Seek advice promptly if your studies are affected or you experience harassment.
Things to check
- The name and usage of consultation services vary by university, so check the university’s official guidance.