What are signs that I am starting to fit in at university?
Signs that you may be starting to fit in at university include becoming familiar with your classes, facilities, and schedule, and knowing where to ask for help when you need it. You may also find yourself participating more in class, talking more naturally with friends or other students, or joining activities outside class. Your daily routine and level of nervousness may gradually become more stable. However, fitting in does not have to be measured by the number of friends you have or how outgoing you are.
Key points
- You become more familiar with classes, facilities, and your schedule.
- You participate in class and have more natural conversations with other students.
- Your routine becomes more settled, and some of your anxiety about university eases.
Things to check
- The pace and form of fitting in differ between people, and it is not unnatural to sometimes feel lonely or anxious.
- If distress or anxiety continues for a long time, consider contacting a university counselling or support service.