Is it normal to lose confidence after meeting stronger students at university?
Yes. It is not unusual to lose confidence after meeting students who seem more capable. Comparing yourself with them can make your own weaknesses feel more visible, but this does not mean that you lack ability. You may be able to use the experience for growth by learning from their study methods or strengths while also considering your own progress so far and setting specific goals.
Key points
- A temporary drop in confidence after comparison is not unusual.
- Someone else’s strengths do not define your overall ability or worth.
- Comparing yourself with your past performance and setting small, concrete goals can help.
Things to check
- If the feeling continues for a long time or interferes with study or daily life, consider speaking with someone you trust or a university counseling service.