What should I do if my parents prefer a different university from me?
First, ask why your parents prefer the other university—such as concerns about cost, commuting, the academic content, or future pathways—and separate those concerns from your own goals and priorities. Then review each university’s official information together and discuss a comparison that includes costs and available support. If you cannot reach agreement, consider speaking with a teacher or career adviser. Aim for a choice that reflects both your goals and your family’s circumstances and that you can accept.
Key points
- Listen carefully to your parents’ specific reasons rather than treating the disagreement as simply for or against a university.
- Compare academic content, commuting, costs, support, and future pathways for each option.
- If discussion remains difficult, ask a teacher or career adviser to help mediate or clarify the issues.
Things to check
- Details such as course content, costs, and support can vary by faculty, program, and academic year, so check the universities’ official information.