What if my parents and I value completely different things in a university?

Start by listing your priorities and your parents’ priorities as “essential,” “desirable,” or “negotiable,” so the disagreement becomes a comparison of priorities rather than a personal conflict. Check facts such as the program you want, student life, tuition, commuting or housing, and possible career paths using the same sources, and discuss the reasons and budget limits behind each view. Compare several universities; if you still cannot agree, consult a teacher or career adviser. The decision should reflect your goals while also acknowledging what your family can realistically support.